Our Birth Story

So a lot has happened since my last blog post.  I really planned to keep up better but life got busy and finding time to write has been difficult!

At the time of my last post I was 27 weeks pregnant with our precious babies!  Today Nolan and Payton are 28 weeks old!  The past 6 months have flown by and the babies are growing so fast!  I’ll try to catch up on all that has happened since last April.  Most of my pregnancy was fairly uneventful.  I of course worried a lot about how the babies were doing and when they would decide to enter this world.  I gained about 30 pounds but had a massive belly for sure!  Late into pregnancy we were having weekly sonograms and doctor’s appointments so it was great to get to see the little monkeys each week.  As they got bigger it was harder to really see them good on sonogram but it was always a relief to know they were doing well.  Baby B always had a good time kicking Baby A in the head which we witnessed on sonograms several times throughout the pregnancy.  We had made the decision to not find out what the genders of the babies were.  Once the nursery was decorated I never even had the urge to find out.  This drove some of my friends crazy but it was fun not knowing.  We of course would always make guesses as to what we were having based on what they were doing in my tummy.  Unfortunately, at 35 weeks the sonogram tech blew it and told us what we were having.  I was pretty bummed as we had made it so long without knowing but it was great because we could stop thinking about names as we were solid on Nolan and Payton but were still on the fence for the second girl and second boy names.  I always just wanted two healthy babies but having one of each is awesome!

Our birth story is a little crazy and scary but I want to document so I don’t forget it.  I developed a rash on Wednesday June 24^th.  I called the doctor on Thursday and they told me to go have it checked out at labor and delivery.  Well I’m stubborn and didn’t want to go to L&D for a rash.  I had self diagnosed myself with PUPPS which is a pretty common pregnancy rash and causes no harm.  Well the itching continued to get worse and I just couldn’t ignore it anymore as I did not sleep at all Thursday night.  I had a sonogram Friday morning so we decided to go do that and then head to L&D to have the rash looked at.  My hope was they would give me some steroids to help with the itching and we would be on our way.  Sonogram went great and both babies were head down.  On the way to the hospital I asked Mark if he wanted to stop for lunch first in case we had to wait awhile.  He said no because the last time we had to go to L&D (severe heartburn) we were in and out pretty quick.  Well when we got to L&D this time they were really busy so we had to wait longer than expected.  Needless to say we were regretting not getting lunch!  Once we got back into a room things seemed to move pretty fast from there.  I had to do a UA, blood work and vitals.  I asked the doctor if I could just get something for the itching and get out of there.  She said that they would probably get me a steroid but needed to rule out a few things first.  They did a bunch of blood pressures on me.  This is about the time we realize something is going on because I was setting the alarm off with my pressures.  The machine was also picking up a few contractions but I wasn’t feeling them.  I end up going to the bathroom and come out to find a sonogram machine in the room.   The nurse told us that they needed to see what position the babies were in as they were going to have to DELIVER!  Ummmm….Say what?!?!?  Needless to say we were in a bit of shock.  From there everything happened really fast.  I had developed what they call HELLP.

H (hemolysis, which is the breaking down of red blood cells)

EL (elevated liver enzymes)
LP (low platelet count)

I was told they were going to induce labor and that I couldn’t have an epidural.  Long story short…my doctor always said that she wouldn’t induce labor and if I got to 38 weeks it would have to be a c-section.  I could only deliver naturally if I went into labor on my own.  So I start to panic because I knew my doctor wouldn’t induce and they wanted to do it without pain meds!!!!  My doctor was in the hospital delivering another baby so they talked to her and she said c-section and then it was up to the anesthesiologist if I could stay awake and just have a block or if I had to be put all the way under.  Thankfully I was able to stay awake!  From the time we were told we were delivering to the time I was in the OR was less than 1.5 hours.  We had time to get in touch with our family and let them know what was going on but that was about it.

The evening of June 26^th, 2015 at 36 weeks + 1 day we welcomed our precious babies.  Nolan (Baby A) was born at 6:55pm weighing in at 5 lbs 2 ozs and 17.5 inches long. Payton (Baby B) was born at 6:58pm weighing in at 4 lbs 15 ozs and 17.5 inches long.  We had 2 NICU teams in the room ready to take the babies but we were so blessed that they both checked out great and were able to stay with us!

In the following days we found out just how serious my condition was.  We were told by numerous doctors and nurses that it was a good thing we went to the hospital when we did.  Given another 12 hours we could have had a very different outcome.  I was told that there was a good chance I would have stroked out at home and all 3 of us would not have survived.  The man upstairs was for sure looking out for us.  Before the rash I had shown no signs and when I was at the doctor on Tuesday my BP was just fine.  The thought of what could have been was/is very scary but we are all healthy!

I had to spend the first 24 hours on a magnesium drip and the babies were having some issues keeping their body temperatures up so they stayed under the lamps a lot and we didn’t get to hold them much that first day.  The first couple days are a pretty big blur to me and I don’t remember a lot.  So we delivered Friday evening and were able to go home Tuesday evening.  Between my parents and my in-laws we were so blessed with a ton of great help those first few weeks at home.  We could not have done it without them.

Mark has been beyond amazing with the babies.  He is such a great daddy!  The babies just love him so much!  I could not do it without him!  The past 6 months has been trying at times but I wouldn’t change it for the world.  We are so blessed to have 2 healthy babies.  It has been so fun to watch them grow and learn.  From day one they have had their own little personalities.  I was lucky enough to spend the first 12 weeks at home with them.  Going back to work was so difficult but they are at an amazing daycare that we just love.